Imagine Getting So Many Dates That
They Have To Take A Number...

Flirting Tips For Guys That Really Work
Even If You Struck Out 20 Times In A Row!!!

By John Garret

Dear Friend,

There are two camps. The first is the traditional belief that the guy is supposed to give women flowers, take them to an expensive dinner and then go to a movie or some other similar entertainment. The guy is supposed to pay for everything and maybe will get a kiss after the third date…and they will need lots of flirting tips for guys to be successful! Not only that…BORING!!!

The second camp is that all of the above is BS. Either the woman likes you and wants jump in the sack with you or not.

Let me explain…

Why do guys think that if they do all these things, the girl might fall in love with them? Girls hate guys that need their approval!

Listen up…

Girls are way ahead of the game. While guys were still learning to tie their shoes, girls are already planning their big weddings. Women want to be swept off their feet. They don’t need things … they want feelings. This is where guys get confused and frustrated. We don’t know what women want! We are simple and direct … and guess what? Women are not! So this is why I wrote the flirting tips for guys.

Which leads us to communication. If you do a search on the Internet, you will find that roughly 90 % of our communication is non-verbal. And women are experts at judging these criteria. Men are at a disadvantage because we don’t know what the heck we are doing…

So it makes sense that if men concentrate on improving their non-verbal communication, it would give them a massive advantage in dating.

So, what do a lot of men do that turns women off? Aside from the obvious stuff such as spitting on the ground and acting like a dork, women like confident men. What do confident men do? Check your friends out that are successful with women. Do they walk and talk slowly? BINGO! If you move slowly, you give the image that you are a man who is comfortable in his skin. And that my friend…is what makes you very attractive to women!

So, do you take women out for dinner or coffee? Why spend a lot of money on dinners, flowers, and movies? Do this, and you will more likely get the LJBF (Let’s Just Be Friends) talk. Think about it…when you spend all this money on dates, the girls knows this. They start feeling obligated and sort of resent the implication that they have to kiss you for all the stuff you did for them. Are you following me? Spending a lot of money on dates is almost like treating a woman like a prostitute. This for that. And this is not a good thing because the number one fear women have is their friends will perceive them as sluts.

So how do you get around that? How about a cup of coffee? Or ask the girl to come along because you are going to have lunch at your favorite cheapo diner? See where I’m going with this? You are now saying that I am NOT trying to buy your approval because I really don’t care whether you approve of me or not.

Does this make sense to you?

One last thing, never, never and I mean, never ask a woman if they like you!

I will have to smack you. And I am not kidding here... Just don't do it.

Because this is one of the most certain, 100% guaranteed way to kill all the attraction the girl has for you. So...follow these flirting tips for guys on meeting single women and good luck to you!

Your Friend,

John Garret
The Dream Date Resource Expert